Darse Paqui-tarse : un imán para la insatisfacción.

Abstract

Paqui is a young patient who comes to the clinic with a complaint to her psychologist so that he can provide her with some knowledge about what is happening to her. She narrates several events that are linked to the fact of being so generous to the point of giving her whole self and being left with nothing. However, she unconsciously repeats these unhappy scenes, becoming her way of enjoying dissatisfaction. The answer of femininity is an enigma that she solves from her mother and sister. She identifies with their symptom without knowing the consequences that this brought her. She gives herself without limits to others, wearing herself out physically and psychologically and remaining completely unsatisfied by prioritizing the desire of her others and not her own. This contingently leads her to meet what would become her partners: violent men. She positions herself as an object of waste before them and leads a martyrized life causing an erasure of the subject, she becomes indispensable and then flees from them. These phenomena present in her life make possible a case analysis and a presumed structural diagnosis based on the psychoanalytic current.